Don’t be Loyal, Be Available
The phrase "don't be loyal, be available" is a reminder that sometimes loyalty can hold us back from being fully present and helpful in certain situations. While loyalty is certainly an admirable trait, there are times when it can become a hindrance rather than a help.
Being available means being there for others when they need us, whether it's a friend who needs to talk, a family member who needs help with something, or a colleague who needs assistance with a project. Being available requires us to put aside our own distractions and priorities and prioritize the needs of others.
In contrast, loyalty can sometimes blind us to the needs of those outside our immediate circle. We may feel obligated to prioritize the needs of our employer, for example, even if it means neglecting our family or friends. Or we may be so loyal to a particular brand or political party that we close ourselves off to other perspectives and opportunities.
Of course, loyalty is still an important value. Loyalty to our loved ones, our communities, and our principles gives us a sense of purpose and belonging. But we also need to remember that being available means being open-minded and flexible, willing to put aside our loyalties in order to serve others.
In practical terms, this might mean volunteering for a cause that isn't necessarily aligned with our usual political views or taking on a project at work that falls outside our usual job description. It might mean being willing to set aside time for a friend who needs our support, even if it means saying no to other commitments.
Ultimately, being available requires us to approach life with a spirit of generosity and compassion. We need to be willing to go beyond our comfort zones and put the needs of others before our own. By doing so, we can build stronger relationships, deepen our sense of purpose, and make a positive impact on the world around us.